Join
me in Boulder, Colorado, Friday evening, October 27, and all day
Saturday and Sunday, August 28 and 29, 2006 for my 2 ½ day
interactive workshop. Learn and practice the communication
tools to create more love, intimacy and understanding in your life!
“Truly
transformational -- I came here in turmoil, disconnected and
feeling hopeless.
But through this workshop, I now feel more connected and
appreciative to my beloved than ever.
My inner peace and capacity for love or stronger than I imagined
they ever could be. I am
grateful.”
Jerome - Golden, Colorado
“After just the initial two-hour session of this workshop my husband
and I were able to use those tools on our own upsets. We were an
hour and a half into our drive home when
I realized we were talking about our toughest issues with calm
compassion and understanding instead of upset and hurt.
Thank you so much for such an amazing gift." C.
S. Estes Park, Colorado
“I felt so lost and full of despair about my new relationship. I
didn’t feel like any of my words were getting through. I couldn’t
convey myself in a healthy manner; this
class showed me I had options to turn despair into hope. I now feel
like I have the security in my thoughts to convey myself for a
brighter future with my mate.”
Increase the amount of love, intimacy, compassion
and understanding you both
feel.
Deal
with the 'HOT BUTTONS' you
always avoid or always fight about...
like intimacy, house work, money, steps, exes and
in-laws...
Ask
for what you want... both in and out of the bedroom...
and GET IT!
Deal with your partner's emotional baggage (and your
own) so it doesn't
ruin your relationship.
Talk about painful and important issues openly and
honestly without taking things
personally, attacking or being defensive.
Talk
About What's Upsetting You in a Way That Actually
Creates More
Intimacy, Understanding and Healing.
And that's just the beginning... we will
also cover how to:
Get your partner wanting to listen to you
without trying to fix you, fight
with you or flee from you.
Be able to hear your partner when they are upset
without taking it personally.
Take care of yourself in a relationship where your
spouse's needs for
physical and emotional intimacy are different than
your own.
To
say “NO” without hurting and losing the people you love
most.
Have
a real, alive, open and honest relationship
rather then a NICE (Not
Interested in Connecting Emotionally) dead one.
Identify and avoid the 5 Heart-Breaking and
Relationship-Wrecking Communication
Mistakes that almost everyone makes.
The verbal landmines
. . . 'trigger words'
and 'trigger phases' that will almost always cause
explosive reactions, usually ending
in augments and hurt feelings.
Making
Mistake #1 will almost guarantee that your lover will
become defensive, resistant and angry...
AND YOU MAY NOT EVEN KNOW YOU DO IT!
Discover
how to avoid this one mistake and dramatically increase
the amount of intimacy in your life.
Learn
how to avoid Mistake #2 . . . it can turn around any
upset in minutes.
How
to be with your partner when their reaction is way out
of proportion
to whatever you said or did...
How
being able to identify Mistake #3 will stop most
misunderstandings and arguments in their tracks, and
create new levels of clarity, connection and
understanding.
What
mistake not to make when you are trying to tell the
person you love something important,
and they can't even listen. (Mistake #4)
Why
making Mistake #5 can really cause problems.
You'll notice it when you think you are doing someone a
favor and they get mad instead.
How
to encourage even the most silent partners to open up
and speak
honestly and vulnerably about how they feel and what
they want.
An
overview of the pieces to the Communication Puzzle
Learn to create instant, heart-opening intimacy and
connection with
our simple, powerful and effective 4-step method
Discover the one purpose of all important communication
Practice the secret skill your partner wants you to
learn but doesn't
know how to ask for
Learn
how to talk so your partner will really understand
Day Two:
Practice distinguishing the important four steps of the
communication
Experience role play between participants and trainers
to being
honing your new skills
Learn how to Identify and avoid the 5 Most Common
Relationship-
Wrecking Communication Mistakes
Know what mistake not to make when you are trying
to tell the
person you love something important
Find out the one mistake to avoid and dramatically
increase the amount
of intimacy in your life
Day Three:
Additional role play sessions where you can explore your
most challenging issues without getting upset or taking
your partner's responses personally
Experience the 7 Secret Keys to increasing the amount of
love, sex, intimacy and understanding you have in your
relationship.
Learn how to be with your partner when their reaction is
way out of
proportion to whatever you said or did
Discover how to get around the barrier that almost
everyone has of
taking things personally
Practice, practice and... you guessed it, more practice
The Seminar Details...
100% Risk Free Application If -- for
any reason -- you decide this seminar didn’t meet your
needs, simply email
The Language of Peace at
cibe@sprynet.com with the reasons why (we’d like to
learn from your experience) and we will refund your
fee. No hassles.
The Language
of Peace Presents...
“Creating
Relationship Magic” Creating a Conscious,
Compassionate Relationship
Filled With Love, Intimacy and
Understanding.
3-Day
Intensive:
Introductory
Session: Friday,
August 18, 7:00 – 9:30 pm
Day 1: The Five Deadly Mistakes:
Saturday, August 19, 9:00 am – 5:00 pm
Day 2: The Four-Step Intimate Communication
System and 7 Relationship Longevity Keys .
Sunday, August 20, 9:00 am – 5:00 pm
Hosted in
Boulder, Colorado -- at a location yet to be determined.
Photo:
Naropa Professors at a Language of Peace seminar at the
Shambala Center -- just one of the many seminars we've
given throughout Colorado at diverse locations.
YES!
Paul and Kristin, I want to create the relationship of
my dreams now!
I'm tired of
all the fighting, bickering, and lack of intimacy... and
I'm ready to have incredible intimacy and
passion back in my life.
And I
realize that I'm fully protected by your 100% Risk-Free,
Money-Back Guarantee.
I've got
nothing to lose, and everything to gain... so I'll be
seeing the two of you on October 27, 28 and 29, 2006!
Or you can call
our office to register or
get any of your questions answered: (970) 586-7734
The Seminar Costs...
Join me Friday evening, October 27, and all day
Saturday and
Sunday, October 28 and 29 in Boulder, Colorado.
per person
per couple
If registered Before
October 13
$ 220.00
$399
If registered
After October 13
$250.00
$425
The Seminar Leaders...
The workshop will be led
by Paul Sterling, communication coach,
providing
Compassionate Coaching with the intent of creating harmony in
relationships through the method of Nonviolent Communication created
by Dr. Marshall Rosenberg (www.cnvc.org).
Paul Sterling, after a career as a
commercial fisherman in Alaska, has spent the past twenty years
studying and teaching communication skills in government and
business. He is certified in Eriksonian hypnosis, neuro-linguistic
programming, and neuro-associative response.
Paul has
taught this life-changing, simple, 4-step method to a wide
variety of people ranging from maximum security prisoners to
priests, from at-risk high-school students to the staff of Goodwill
Denver... to teachers, professors, Buddhist Monks and and lots lots
of individuals and couples.
“…I believe that
my communication will
never be the same
because of a gift I received from him (Paul)
in the Language of Peace seminar that I took.”
Greg Cortopassi, Denver,
Colorado
"I recognize how I am constantly building
cases against people. Just that alone has radically impacted my
relationships." Daniela Hess Scholl, Ithaca, New York
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f you have any questions -- any at all -- email us at
. Or call our office (970) 586-7734.
Increase the amount of love, intimacy, compassion
and understanding you both 
.