Relationship Remodeling Workshop

Attention: You can learn how to solve your relationship problems compassionately and effectively . . .

Well, just for a moment picture what it would be like if you could easily and confidently do the following:

We’re here to tell you that not only is all this possible, but we are living proof. Is it easy? Sometimes yes, sometimes no. Is it worth it? Absolutely YES!

Kristin and I have spent the last twenty years studying and teaching communication skills along with giving public presentations and private coaching for couples. We have consulted for companies ranging from the Sheraton Hotels in Hong Kong, to The Alaskan Native Association north of the Artic Circle, to the management team at the City of Albuquerque. We have worked with hundreds of individuals and couples all around the world as well.

We have put the principles we teach to the test in our own relationship.
The learning hasn't always easy and there have been bumps along the road.

“I felt so lost and full of despair about my new relationship. I didn’t feel like any of my words were getting through. I couldn’t convey myself in a healthy manner; this class showed me I had options to turn despair into hope. I now feel like I have the security in my thoughts to convey myself for a brighter future with my mate.”

- LaDonna Taylor - Denver, Colorado

“We were in crisis. We had no tools or understanding of how to traverse this quagmire. It seamed like the only solution was to dissolve the relationship; the idea of which filled me with sadness. I had failed. My partner and I agreed to take this weekend seminar in nearly a last ditch effort to see our own humanity and that of the other. It works. I feel love, openness and connection toward my partner: something I haven’t felt for months.”

- A. B. Golden, Colorado

“After just the initial two-hour session, my husband and I were able to use those tools on our own upsets. We were an hour and a half into our drive home when I realized we were talking about our toughest issues with calm compassion and understanding instead of upset and hurt. Thank you so much for such an amazing gift.”

- C.S. Estes Park, Colorado

"I took the workshop with my sweetheart and first of all it opened up our communications beautifully. There were a lot of things we hadn't know that got swept under the carpet that got to be exposed, as a result created more trust between us, which I already felt there was a heck-of-a-lot-of."

- Dr. Lawrence Conlan, Boulder, CO

"OK, It sounds great, but will it work for me?"

In three action packed days, you will be exposed to some very powerful principles and techniques, which when applied to your relationships, will make
all the difference in your world. Guaranteed! This is your opportunity to discover and practice little known secrets to creating the relationship of your dreams. This is also an opportunity to learn invaluable keys to not only creating the relationship of your dreams but sustaining it as well:

· Your partner will want to listen to you without trying to fix you, fight with you or flee from you. And you will be able to hear your partner when they are upset without taking it personally.

· Take care of yourself in a relationship where your spouse's needs for physical and emotional intimacy are different than your own.

· What to do about the lack of sexual intimacy before it breaks you apart

· Learn how to say "no" without hurting and losing the people you love most.

· Identify and avoid the 5 Relationship-Wrecking Communication Mistakes that you may not even know you are making

· Learn to encourage even the most silent partners to open up and speak honestly and vulnerably about how they feel and what they want.

· Discover the verbal landmines... 'trigger words' and 'trigger phases' that will almost always cause explosive reactions, usually ending in augments and hurt feelings.

· 3 words never to use on the people you love, and how they damage your relationship.

· Know what to do when you say something you think is kind and connecting, but your lover takes it in a totally different way.

· Balance your needs for independence and interdependence

And did we say your success is guaranteed?

It’s true. Guaranteed!

Your N0 Risk 90-Day Guarantee

It’s this simple:

1. Attend the workshop.

2. Learn the 5 Deadly Communication Mistakes.

3. Apply the 4 Steps to Heart-Opening Intimacy

4. Practice the 7 Secrets to Increasing the Love, Intimacy and Understanding in Your Relationship.

If your relationship doesn’t dramatically improve in 90 days we’ll refund your money 100%. And you can keep the workshop materials and the bonuses as our gift to you. No questions asked.

What have you got to lose?

The truth is, you have nothing to lose,

and a great relationship to gain!

But before we get ahead or ourselves, let us first tell what this seminar is not . . .

Here’s what this seminar is not:

· It’s not about getting the “other” person to change – we know, darn!

· It’s not about “shoulding” on your self or your partner

· It’s not a “quick fix” – there is some “work” involved (but mostly a lot of play!)

Second, here’s a sampling of what you can expect at the seminar:

Day One:

· An overview of the pieces to the Communication Puzzle

· Learn to create instant, heart-opening intimacy and connection with our simple, powerful and effective 4-step method

· Discover the one purpose of all important communication

· Practice the secret skill your partner wants you to learn but doesn't know how to ask for

· Learn how to talk so your partner will really understand

Day Two:

· Practice distinguishing the important four steps of the communication

· Experience role play between participants and trainers to being honing your new skills

· Learn how to Identify and avoid the 5 Most Common Relationship-Wrecking Communication Mistakes

· Know what mistake not to make when you are trying to tell the person you love something important

· Find out the one mistake to avoid and dramatically increase the amount of intimacy in your life

Day Three:

· Additional role play sessions where you can explore your most challenging issues without getting upset or taking your partners responses personally

· Experience the 7 Secret Keys to increasing the amount of love, sex, intimacy and understanding you have in your relationship.

· Learn how to be with your partner when their reaction is way out of proportion to whatever you said or did

· Discover how to get around the barrier that almost everyone has of taking things personally

· Practice, practice and... you guessed it, more practice

Third, are you ready to transform your relationship and create more love, intimacy and understanding . . . overnight?

Before you answer this last question,
we are going to make it even easier
for you to say YES!

We have no doubts you realize the value of what we are offering you. Relationship Coaching and Counseling alone could cost hundred’s of dollars – without any real guarantee of success. Who wants to deal with all that?

So here’s our offer to you. We like to over-deliver to our clients and customers which means we’re going to make this a real no-brainer. Think of it as a reward for taking your relationship future into your own hands and by taking action right away.

Register for the Relationship Magic Seminar Today and receive the following bonuses:

Bonus #1 – Free 1 hour coaching session with Paul and Kristin (Value $250)

Bring your partner / spouse along and receive invaluable support and coaching perspective on whatever issue(s) might be most current

Bonus #2 – Receive 3 MP3 recordings from Paul and Kristin’s powerful teleseminar series, The Magic, Myths and Mistakes of Relationships (Value $59.85):

· "How to Ask For and Get What You Want ... Both In and Out of the Bedroom"

· "Resolving Conflicts Without Losing The Love"

· "How to Encourage a Silent Partner to Talk Openly and Honestly"

These three audio recordings normally sell for $19.95 each and are chock full of information you will want to listen to again and again. Your relationships will never be the same.

Bonus #3 – All seminar participants will receive an eBook on Nonviolent Communication by Dr. Wayland Myers. (Value $14.95)

You will also receive a copy of this amazing book that covers the basics of what the author refers to as “nonviolent communication.” Learn to distinguish between language that contributes to your well-being and the well-being of others and that which does not.

Bonus #4 – 12 month subscription to our Monthly eZine – The Compassionate Communicator. ((Value $129)

For 12 months you’ll receive tips, tools and techniques to further your mastery and skill in communicating with your partner and all the important relationships in your life. Also includes articles and interviews by international communication and relationship experts.

Wait. One more Gift.

You see, we’re a bit altruistic. We believe that as your communication skills improve, the world is likely to be better off for it. For us, that’s a worthy goal!

So here’s the deal:

Register today, receive all 4 of the bonuses listed above

(Valued at $453.80) and take a whopping ~~57%~~ 72%

off the regular seminar price of $350 and pay only ~~$199~~ $99!

That’s right. $99.

You can learn to become a skilled communicator and have the relationship of your dreams. The choice is up to you! Remember, you have nothing to lose and a life of lasting intimacy, heart-felt connection and outrageous sex to gain!

□ Yes! I want to Attend...
The Relationship Magic Seminar!

I understand that when I register today, I'll receive:

3 Action packed Days at the seminar to be held at the Rodeway Inn in gorgeous Estes Park, Colorado

1 hour coaching session with Paul or Kristin

3 MP3 recordings from Paul and Kristin’s powerful teleseminar
series, The Magic, Myths and Mistakes of Relationships:

· "How to Ask For and Get What You Want ... Both In and Out of the Bedroom"

· "Resolving Conflicts Without Losing The Love"

· "How to Encourage a Silent Partner to Talk Openly and Honestly"

The eBook, Nonviolent Communication by Dr. Wayland Myers

12 month subscription to the ezine, “The Compassionate
Communicator”

I understand if after 90 days my relationship doesn’t dramatically improve, I can request a full refund, no questions asked. And the workshop materials and bonuses are still mine to keep.

And I realize that I'm guaranteed to get everything above for only ~~$350~~ ~~$199~~ $99 when I register today.

Kristin and I look forward to seeing you on August 18-20 at the Rodeway Inn in Estes Park, Colorado!

Yours for Relationship Success!

Paul Sterling & Kristin Denton

The Language Of Peace
www.RelationshipRemodeling.com
(970) 586-7734

P.S. "Insanity is communicating the same way over and over again, expecting a different result." Arguments, intimacy problems, family feuds as well as problems on the job – these are most often communication problems, either with others or ourselves.

      Learn how to communicate with others and you can be successful...
   Learn how to communicate with yourself and you can be happy...
   Learn both and life is good--really good.

Register today for The Relationship Magic Seminar and make it a really good Life!

P.P.S. You can hire someone to work on your car, change the oil, mow your lawn or clean your house. But you can't hire someone to communicate for you, to create connection, intimacy and understanding with your loved ones. If you don't tend to your own relationship, someone else will. This is a chance to change your future.

P.P.P.S. Are you secretly settling in your relationship, hoping for more yet not sure how to get it? Isn’t it time you had the relationship of your dreams? It might be staring you right in the face! Don't go out and find a new relationship. Learn how to relate in a totally new way and you’ll be prepared for whatever Life throws your way.