"Here Is How To... Almost Instantly Increase The Amount Of Love, Affection, Appreciation, Compassion, Understanding and Support You Have In Your Relationship Today."

We'll show you, step-by-step, how to develop intimacy, resolve conflicts, clear up misunderstanding and create open, honest communication in your relationship...  It's like falling in love again.

From: Paul Sterling & Kristin Denton
The 'Language of Peace' Company
Thursday 8:25 PM
Estes Park, Colorado

Dear Friend,  

Last year when we surveyed our readers, these are the qualities they said they wanted in their relationship or marriage:

---trust and safety---a shared sense of humor---shared values---commitment---honesty---teamwork---allowing each other to grow---supporting each other in their careers--- affection and appreciation --- compassion and understanding ---emotional and sexual intimacy---companionship---autonomy and independence---love and caring---peace and joy---passion---respect for each others' intelligence and personality---full expression of oneself---allow each other to be themselves---patience---forgiveness---harmony and cooperation---

However, many of the same readers reported feeling frustrated, disappointed, even hopeless, because their relationships were fraught with these issues:

---past baggage---jealousy---secrets---don't understand each other---problems with health---problems with alcohol---lack of interest in sex---money issues---fighting 'dirty' in arguments---resentment---wanting to be 'right'---doing all of the housework myself---no respect---not following up on tasks---depression---balancing needs for independence and interdependence---not listening---unable to express my own wants and needs effectively, so they aren't getting met --- substance abuse---impatience---violence---no expression of emotion or withholding emotions ---no interest in growing together---no acceptance of individual differences---lack of companionship---infidelity---being "held back"---no emotional safety---lack of appreciation---blame---holding grudges----financial problems---lack of commitment---pornography---one person carries all financial responsibility---constant tension and arguing---having to ask permission to act---compromising oneself for the other---complaining---jealousy---depression---dishonesty---lack of compassion---lack of interest in the relationship --- problems with steps, ex's and in-laws

Our mission ... should you decide you are ready... is to teach you the skills, tools, and techniques needed to have your relationship move from the lower box to the upper box.

Here is the challenge...  the one most web-sites won't tell you about because they're afraid that you can't handle the truth--and you won't buy whatever they're selling: that for your relationship to improve... it means making changes - learning new skills, practicing new tools and stretching your comfort zone.

If another relationship coach is telling you that you can change your relationship without having to do those things - that should scare you.

It's just like in school: there were two groups that got A's.  The first group was lucky and gifted... for them it was easy.

And then there was a second group of us.  We were the group that had to study hard if we wanted to get A's or even B's.  The odd thing is that even though both groups ended up with A's, I believe the A's that we had to work hard for were much more rewarding.

And then, of course, there was a very large group of students that just barely got by at all, hoping and settling for anything above an 'F'...

In relationships there are still the same three groups.

There's a small group that is lucky.  They don't seem to have to work hard at all to have a great relationship. And most likely if you are reading this, you are not in this group.

There are the ones who are doing everything we can think of to make it work, like looking for tips, reading articles, listening to tapes and taking workshops in an effort to have a great relationship.

And then there are the ones that are now stuck and settling for relationships that are just getting by, spending half their time worried that their partner may leave and the other half wishing they would leave.

Your mission, should you choose to accept, is to answer some tough questions…

• What is your relationship worth to you?  How committed are you?
• Is your relationship worth learning for, growing for, changing for and fighting for...?
• Is it worth stretching your comfortable zone for? Is it worth being vulnerable and giving it another try, even though you may have tried many times before?
• Worth learning something new for? Worth taking workshops and learning something new for? Spending time, energy and a few bucks for?

Once you have decided that a great relationship is something you want, there are many different ways to get it. Some of the paths make the journey easier and more fun and others make it tougher... and still others don't work at all.

One path that has been proven to greatly increase the quality of any relationship is The Language of Peace – a simple, 4-step communication method that allows you to connect to your partner's feelings and needs in a way that brings you closer than you ever thought possible. And it allows you to express yourself in a way that is more open and honest than you thought you'd ever be able to manage.

When Paul was younger, he went through a relationship that was just not working. He started reading and studying and going to workshops in an effort to find the answer to his relationship problems.

After searching for years, he stumbled on the answer by accident. He was visiting some close friends who were having major marital issues and who looked like they were headed straight for a divorce.

Yet four months later, when he visited them again they were happier than he had seen them in a long time. They were smiling and touching again… he had to ask what happened. What turned their relationship around and how could he learn about it?

He was told they had studied something called Nonviolent Communication created by a psychologist, Dr. Marshall Rosenberg. This communication method was being used around the world in some of the most difficult situations to resolve conflicts, clear up misunderstandings and create connection between almost anyone.

Paul decided to go study this method, and what he learned rocked his world:   

“I would never look at relationships or communication the same way again. I had finally found something that put the pieces of the communication puzzle into a simple, yet powerful and effective, method.”

Years later, having studied with Dr. Marshall Rosenberg in Sweden , California , Colorado and Texas, Paul developed The Language of Peace. He has added pieces of what he learned through Dr. Deming's systems theory, neuro-linguistic programming and neuro-associative conditioning to create an incredibly effective way to compassionately connect with oneself and others.

Kristin Denton, his life partner, has been an instructor of language, literature and second language acquisition for the last 18 years in workplace, community college and public school settings.  She joins Paul in presenting his communication method.

Together, they lead workshops, teleseminars and coach a wide variety of people, teaching them the tools of the Language of Peace so that they can make the changes they desire in their lives. Our clients range from ‘at-risk' high school students, to maximum security prisoners, to school teachers and therapists and singles, parents and couples.

Here's a partial List of the groups we've worked with:

• Naropa University , Boulder
• Goodwill Services, Denver
• Bear Creek High School ACE Program
• Lakewood High School ACE Program
• Mi Casa Resource Center , Denver
• The Sexual Healers Guild, Denver
• The Ozark Mountain Women's Land Association
• Jefferson County Corrections Facility

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What Would Your Relationship Would Be Like
If You Could Easily and Confidently…

• Increase the amount of love, intimacy, attention, affection and gratitude you both feel.
• Handle the "Hot Buttons" you always avoid or always fight about... like intimacy, house work, money, steps, exes and in-laws with ease, openness, compassion and understanding.
• Ask for what you want... both in and out of the bedroom... and GET IT!
• Handle your partner's emotional baggage, or you own… so it doesn't ruin your relationship, but brings you closer instead.
• Talk about painful and important issues openly and honestly without taking things personally, attacking or being defensive.
• Discuss what's upsetting you in a way that actually creates more intimacy, understanding and healing.
• Use 4 Simple steps to quickly turn any upset, argument or misunderstanding into compassionate conversation.
• Create intimacy by knowing the secret of where it starts – and no, it doesn't start in the bedroom.
• Encourage even the most silent partners to open up and speak openly and honestly.
• Stop the back-stabbing and in-fighting around your home and create a sense of peace, harmony and cooperation.
• Say “NO” without hurting the other person's feelings and losing your connection with them.
• Express yourself honestly and completely even when you are angry and disappointed.
• Avoid the 5 relationship-wrecking communication mistakes that most people don't even know they are making.
• Learn Mistake #1, Case Building, and how it causes people to resist or refuse to talk about what's going on inside of them.

When most people hear that these are the things that the Language of Peace can do for their relationship, they're overjoyed.

Is it worth it to listen to MP3 recordings, listen in on teleseminars and attend live seminars to have the skills and tools to create incredible intimacy? Is it worth it to, whenever you want, be able to talk about even the toughest and most emotional issues with compassion and understanding, to be able to keep the magic in a relationship and to amplify it over time?  Instead of losing the love, to be able to resolve conflicts quickly and be able to turn breakdowns in to breakthroughs?

Mastering these tools through the Language of Peace will impact your whole life.

"I felt so lost and full of despair about my new relationship. I didn't feel like any of my words were getting through. I couldn't convey myself in a healthy manner ; this class showed me I had options to turn despair into hope. I now feel like I have the security in my thoughts to convey myself for a brighter future with my mate.”
LaDonna Taylor - Denver , Colorado

"Truly transformational -- I came here in turmoil, disconnected and feeling hopeless.  But through this workshop, I now feel more connected and appreciative to my beloved than ever.   My inner peace and capacity for love are stronger than I imagined they ever could be I am grateful.” 
Jerome - Golden, Colorado

“After just the initial two-hour session of this workshop my husband and I were able to use those tools on our own upsets. We were an hour and a half into our drive home when I realized we were talking about our toughest issues with calm compassion and understanding instead of upset and hurt. Thank you so much for such an amazing gift.”
C. S. - Estes Park , Colorado  

What to Do Next…?

The following is a list of the currently available MP3 recordings.  Come back monthly to check on the new recordings and topics we've recently uploaded.

Click on the order button and you be download these recordings in minutes to your computer or iPod.  Then listen and learn these incredibly powerful, effective and simple tools while listening to these mp3 in your car, at home, working out...

Most of these recordings come from our teleseminar series, "The Magic, Myths and Mistakes of Relationship Communication," an on-going series of teleseminars.  If you'd like to join the teleseminars live, click on the following link:  teleseminars

If you have any questions, or need more information, please let us know. Just click on the following orange, underlined link to email us your question: Let us know . We'll do what we can to help.

Yours for Relationship Success!

P.S. "Insanity is communicating the same way over and over again, expecting a different result." Arguments, intimacy problems, family feuds as well as problems on the job - these are most often communication problems, either with others or ourselves.

• Learn how to communicate with others and you can be successful
• Learn how to communicate with yourself and you can be happy
• Learn both and life is good. Very good!

PSS. "These are either the best, more informative, most useful recording you have listened to on relationships or they are free...

Order these interviews, listen to them, take notes and practice what you learned. You have 45 day to put these tools to the test... if after listening and applying these tools you don't agree that they are most useful communication and relationship you have ever learned - just let us know and we will gladly refund your money...

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