"What if there were a radically different way to communicate… that once you learned its simple principles, your relationships with everybody would transform -- forever?"
What if there were a way to express yourself fully without fear of alienating others? What if there were an easy way to say emotional or difficult things -- a way that would ensure compassion and connection, rather than fighting and irritation?
If you are interested in these amazing communication tips, tools and techniques, our special audio interviews will tantalize your mind.
Not only will you learn what to say and how to say it to increase intimacy and understanding in your relationship… you will also learn what not to say and why - how to sidestep 'trigger words' and 'trigger phrases' and bypass the normal upsets.
The following is a list of the currently available MP3 recordings. Come back monthly to check on the new recordings and topics we've recently uploaded.
Order and download these recordings to your computer
or iPod to learn these incredibly powerful, effective and simple tools
while listening to these mp3 in your car, at home, working out...
Starter Kit:
"The 4 Steps To Creating
Instant Intimacy and Understanding"
and "The 5 Mistakes of
Relationship Communication"
-
Includes a Written Report on the 5 Mistakes
Learn how to deal with the "hot buttons' you usually
try to avoid, like intimacy, housework, money, steps,
exes and in-laws.
Avoid the 5 relationship Wrecking communication mistakes
that plague almost every relationship.
Learn to use the 4 steps to resolve conflicts, quickly,
compassionately, and effectively.
Learn uncover the causes of your upsets, and not just
deal with the symptoms.
$49.95
The
Starter Kit PLUS the 4
Teleseminar Recording Package
Includes the "5 Mistakes of Relationship Communication"
report
The "5 Mistakes" teleseminar recording --
instruction from Paul and Kristin on the 5 mistakes plus
role plays with participants
"The 4 Steps" teleseminar recording
"Getting a Quiet Partner to Open Up"
"Asking for What You Want"
"How to Resolve Conflict w/o Loosing the Love"
"The First 3 of the 7 Keys to a Relationship Oasis"
$89.95
"Getting
a Quiet Partner to Open Up"
Learn how to encourage conversation with even the most
silent of people.
Learn the secrets of getting your teenager to hold more
than just one-word conversations.
Learn how to express yourself in such a way that others
want to open up to you.
$14.95
"Asking
for What You Want"
Learn to overcome the tendency to not want to burden
others.
Learn to "dog for your needs".
Learn to see your own needs as beautiful.
$14.95
"How
to Resolve Conflict
Without Loosing the Love"
Sometimes we avoid conflict because we're afraid of
upsetting our partner.
Learn how to address the issues without causing further
upset.
Learn how the 4 step process of The Language of Peace
can not only help you work through the issues, but make
the relationship stronger in the process.
$14.95
"The
First 3 of the 7 Keys
to a Relationship Oasis"
Learn the first three of the 7 Keys to taking your relationship
above and beyond the mundane, ho-hum world.
The 4 Steps are the way to communicate, the 5 Mistakes
are to be avoided, and the 7 Keys are to be practiced
and implemented on a daily basis to create relationship
magic.
$14.95
"Mixing
Money and Love" Teleseminar Recording -- plus learning
materials, diagrams, charts and more
Includes learning materials you can print out or follow
along with on your computer screen as Paul and Kristin
explain how to communicate through one of the most difficult
issues for couples: money!
$14.95
4 Teleseminar
Recordings -- Package Price!
"Getting a Quiet Partner to open Up"
"Asking for What You Want"
"How to Resolve Conflict w/o Loosing the Love"
"The First 3 of the 7 Keys to a
Relationship Oasis"
$49.95
Most of these recordings come from our teleseminar series, "The
Magic, Myths and Mistakes of Relationship Communication," an
on-going series of teleseminars. If you'd like to join the
teleseminars live, click on the following link:
teleseminars
If you have any questions, or need more information, please let
us know. Just click on the following orange, underlined link to
email us your question: Let
us know . We'll do what we can to help.
Yours for Relationship Success!
P.S. "Insanity is communicating the same way over
and over again, expecting a different result." Arguments,
intimacy problems, family feuds as well as problems on the job -
these are most often communication problems, either with others
or ourselves.
Learn how to communicate with others and you can be successful
Learn how to communicate with yourself and you can be happy
Learn both and life is good. Very good!
PSS. "These are either
the best, more informative, most useful recording you have
listened to on relationships
or they are free...
Order these interviews, listen to them, take notes
and practice what you learned. You have 45 day to put these tools to
the test... if after listening and applying these tools you don't
agree that they are most useful communication and relationship you
have ever learned - just let us know and we will gladly refund your
money...
Left is a photo of Kristin Denton, Dr. Marshall Rosenberg, the creator of Nonviolent Communication (www.cnvc.org) and Paul Sterling.
The recordings are by Paul Sterling and Kristin Denton of The Language of Peace. Paul Sterling, spent almost 18 years as a hardheaded, commercial fisherman in Alaska (in other words, if this method works with him… it has a good chance of working with anyone) and he has spent the past twenty years studying and teaching communication skills in government, business and private practice. Kristin Denton has been an English teacher for the last 17 years, teaching English language, literature and English as a Second Language in workplace and public school settings
“Truly transformational -- I came here in turmoil, disconnected and feeling hopeless. But through this workshop, I now feel more connected and appreciative to my beloved than ever. My inner peace and capacity for love are stronger than I imagined they ever could be. I am grateful.”
- Jerome
Golden, CO
After just the initial two-hour session of this workshop my husband and I were able to use those tools on our own upsets.
We were an hour and a half into our drive home when I realized we were talking about our toughest issues with calm compassion and understanding instead of upset and hurt. Thank you so much for such an amazing gift.
- C. S.
Estes Park, Colorado
“I felt so lost and full of despair about my new relationship. I didn’t feel like any of my words were getting through. I couldn’t convey myself in a healthy manner; this class showed me I had options to turn despair into hope. I now feel like I have the security in my thoughts to convey myself for a brighter future with my mate.”
- LaDonna Taylor
Denver, Colorado
"My Communication Will Never Be the Same…"
".I believe
that my communication will never be the same
because of a gift I received from him (Paul) and his partner
Kristin in the Language of Peace seminar that I took."
Greg
Cortopassi
Click to listen to Greg's testimonial
"Better Equipped to Listen to
Others…"
"I think I will be better equipped to take time to listen
to others' feelings as well as being able to relate to my feelings
without always being defensive, and hearing the negative. When they are
probably just showing me an act of love or asking me for help."
Melissa Snow
Golden, CO
"It opened
up our communications beautifully…"
"I
took the workshop with my sweetheart and first of all it opened
up our communications beautifully. There were a lot of things we
hadn't know that got swept under the carpet that got to be
exposed, as a result created more trust between us, which I
already felt there was a heck-of-a-lot-of."
Dr. Lawrence Conlan
Boulder, CO
"Thank You For Giving Me Tools to
Better Communicate With Others…"
".Thank you Paul and Kristin for giving me tools, not
only to better communicate with others, but also to
increase the quality of the relationships I have."
Darrell E. Spangler
"After
just the initial two-hour session of this workshop my husband
and I were able to use those tools on our own upsets…"
We were an hour and a half into our
drive home when I realized we were talking about our toughest issues
with calm compassion and understanding instead of upset and hurt. Thank
you so much for such an amazing gift."
C. S. Estes Park, Colorado
"I was clear on what I wanted
from my relationship but lost on how to go about getting it…"
"I wanted to write to express my excitement with the
communication
approach I learned via your seminar. Before participating in your
workshop, I was clear on what I wanted from my relationship but lost on
how to go about getting it.
Your seminar clarified for me not only how to
clearly identify what I am seeking but how to connect it to my feelings
and needs as well as to see how they influence the feelings and needs of
those important persons in my life. The important component that I
was missing and that I learned via the workshop was asking for what I
needed. Now, I'm able to close the communication loop. Thanks for the
insights.
Regino - LA, CA
"Thanks for teaching me the power of
empathy."
"Thanks Paul for teaching me the power of empathy
versus trying to "fix-it". It allowed me to look underneath the anger
and frustration I had with my son and see my fears and my need to know
that I did everything I could to prepare him for life."
-
Sharon McKemie
Homer AK.
"In just one session, Paul and Kristin
helped me see what was missing in my conversations with my daughter…"
" When she would come to me in upset for support, it
usually ended in more upset. It felt like she was trying to convince me
how terrible life is and I was constantly trying to help, but to no
avail. We would end up on a collision course that left us both feeling
pretty rotten.
Personally, I was not only frustrated, but very sad.
Even though I was committed to having powerful conversations with her, I
couldn't figure out how to make that happen. I am amazed that in just
one telephone session with Paul and Kristin I got some very "doable"
techniques that instantly improved our conversations and, more
importantly, our relationship.
And I'm not kidding about the instant part. I
literally took what I learned in that phone call and used it right away
to great success. Through Paul's coaching and role playing, I got the
huge "ah ha" AND a stronger, more enjoyable relationship with my
daughter. What could be better than that? Paul and Kristin, thank you
for sharing your gifts.
C.V.F., Vermont
"Radically Impacted My Relationships..."
"I recognize how I am
constantly building cases against people. Just that alone has radically
impacted my relationships."
Daniela
Hess Scholl
Ithaca, New York
Click to listen to Daniela's testimonial
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Left is a photo of Kristin Denton, Dr. Marshall Rosenberg, the creator of Nonviolent Communication (
