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Find out how you can rebuild the passion and excitement, even after
sadness and resignation have set in...
"The
Sexual Myths
Find out what these myths are, how to recognize your own
myths, and what to do to go
beyond
them...
Paul Sterling and
Kristin Denton
Boy do I have a story to share with you.. ...and it's really embarrassing. But here goes.... It was Paul's birthday and we were at our favorite Japanese restaurant. It seemed like we were going to have a great evening -- until we got home. I guess we had really different ideas about what would equal a great ending to a great night... and things just got worse. This is the hard part for us to say, because we're supposed to know better... but Paul and I got into such a misunderstanding around sex, or the lack of it, that we couldn't even talk to each other. Hello? Communication coaches?! It got pretty bad. I couldn't get past the pain. I couldn't even do my work the next day. I kept thinking about breaking up -- that I deserve more respect that somebody who's going to complain about me "all the time". And thinking about breaking up is pretty serious for us: what jobs would we get then? We're relationship coaches, for Christ's sake! We were supposed to have the answers to everybody else's relationship pain and here we were acting like five year olds around this argument about whether we have frequent enough sex. Then, after 10 days of agony, we finally called our coach, the coach of coaches, Linda Hampton. She saved us! She made the invisible visible around some of the myths that have been running both Paul and I. After that we felt like we could grapple with the problems. Once we knew what beliefs our pain was attached to, we could look at them intelligently (or at least more intelligently) and decide what we wanted to do about them. Linda brought back the hope to our relationship - that there was something there that could be changed. And now we want to offer you the same opportunity we had: to find out just how these myths can strangle the joy in your sex life. So why are we telling you this story? Because when we had our breakthrough we thought how powerful and wonderful it was -- and we wanted to share it with you. So we asked, we begged, Linda to do a call with our group. And she said 'yes'! Join us for a Free Teleseminar with Linda Hampton on April 9, 2008, 9:30 pm Eastern Time. She'll show you how to go past the stories and beliefs to renew your intimacy with your loved one. To sign up go to http://www.grill-the-experts.com/askyourrelationshipcoach/ And I want
to warn you that this isn't going to be easy... talking openly and
honestly about sexuality. But it's going to be totally worth while.
Ask the Relationship Coach Your Question She'll Answer It on April 9, 2008, 9:30 pm Eastern (6:30 pm Pacific). Go to http://www.grill-the-experts.com/askyourrelationshipcoach to ask your question and register for this free teleseminar.
Bonus - When You Sign Up for the Free Teleseminar You'll Receive Our New "Sexuality Beliefs Questionnaire" Rank these 47 statements on a scale of 1 - 10. 1 =
disagree, 10 = agree. Then discuss them with your coach and/or your
partner. Be ready for an amazingly introspective experience as we
guide you through revealing your own beliefs... and the beliefs of
your partner. Here's What People Are Saying About Linda's Coaching...
What did your mother teach you? Did she, or your friends, tell you...
Join us for a Free Teleseminar with Linda Hampton on April 9, 2008, 9:30 pm Eastern Time. She'll show you how to go past the stories and beliefs to renew your intimacy with your loved one.
To sign up and ask your question, go to http://www.grill-the-experts.com/askyourrelationshipcoach/ . To Your Relationship Success,
Kristin Denton and Paul Sterling P.S. Here are some of the questions people are asking: 1. March 23, 2008 - 6:45:30 PM Hi Linda, Thank you for taking these questions! My question is...How, after a few years of not being sexually intimate with my partner, can I make myself sexually attractive to her...so that she is interested in being intimate with me again? 2. March 23, 2008 - 6:40:10 PM How to rebuild passion and excitement after sadness and resignation have set in 3. March 23, 2008 - 6:39:41 PM Q: How can couples POLE VAULT (no pun intended) over their anger and 'punishing' attitudes towards each other to get to the physical intimacy they need?? A: Do the dishes everyday!! I GET it but.... my partner will not talk. It has been 2.5 yrs. with NO INTIMACY! When is done, done?? 4. March 23, 2008 - 5:32:20 PM My partner and I have been together exclusively for the past 6 years, and living together for 1 year. We are, I suppose, senior citizens. My situation is that although I am still just as attracted to him as I was when we first got together, the passion has faded away on his part. He is in excellent health and is 10 years younger than I am. I've asked him how often he'd like to have sex and he replied, twice a week. Well, twice a month is the reality. What can I do to regain some of the fun in our relationship? BTW, I have Stage lV breast cancer but feel great and I've been reconstructed. When we met I was bald and had only one breast so I know that isn't the problem. He was still over-the-top attracted to me. Otherwise, our relationship is great. I just don't want to spend the rest of my life with a man who isn't as interested in sex as I am. 5. March 23, 2008 - 5:22:27 PM What to do as a man's testosterone wanes as he gets older?
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March 23, 2008 - 5:09:53 PM
How do we rekindle sexual intimacy when it has not occurred for
a number of years, and when there is a lot of
embarrassment and awkwardness around
intimacy. Sign up and send us YOUR questions! Go to http://www.grill-the-experts.com/askyourrelationshipcoach/ .
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