I had not had an affair -  -  my husband wasn't a cheater -  -  my husband is faithful  -  -  He can be faithful     Back to top

-  -  my husband would act like I mattered -  -  he would call me -  -  I wasn’t so insecure -  -  he would be more supportive when I'm insecure and decide on future plans regarding the relationship -  -  He would stop putting everybody else before me -  -  she gave me a 100% -  my guy would understand that I am totally interested in him only   -  he could risk (he is protecting his heart from being hurt again)    -  He would call -  -  My partner would be more affectionate -  -  I felt that he was invested in it. -  -  he would treat me like a friend -  -  she could wanna hang out with me more -  -  she would stop pulling away and shutting me out -  -  he treating me as well as he did in the beginning -  -  I would be number #1 in his eyes-  -  we could find our friendship again -  -  he thought I was special -  -  I had more reassurance that he's here for me -  -  I could allow myself to be okay with not being a priority -  -  he had more time for me -  -  We would go on dates, rather than just seeing each other in class   Back to top

-  -  we could communicate -  -  he listen to comprehend to communicate -  -  we had better open communication/able to express concerns, issues and better connection -  -  My ex-husband would be more flexible, communicate & share. -  -  communicated and understood each other -  -  he would communicate better -  -  We had better communication -  -  There was more communication -  -  we could communicate -  -  we could communicate better -  -  we would communicate better -  -  I could communicate my feelings more easily -  -  we could communicate -  -  communication -  -  if he would communicate with me -  -  communication is good -  -  communicate, spend quality time together. -  -  He would communicate more -  -  we could communicate -  -  we could communicate -  -  We could communicate -  -  we could communicate better-  -  we had communication -  -  I could communicate. -  -    Back to top

-  - I felt he were completely committed -  my husband was as loyal as I am -  -  he commit   Back to top

-  -  we would compromise -  -  she would validate my – point -  -  He would give a just an inch! He gives no affection. -  -  My husband could see my point of - -  -  We'd stop with the competition and always wanting to "one up" each other. -  -  We could see eye to eye all the time -  -  my husband would defend me -  -  He would consider my feelings   Back to top

-  -  could talk about my problems without getting into a fight -  -  we have open communication and control my anger -  -  we could fight more fairly  -  -  we didn’t fight about stupid issues -  -  My boyfriend would not be irritated with minor things -  -  the bad arguments are gone -  -  I could stop getting so angry -  -  we did not call each other bad names and have tempers -  -  my husband was not afraid of conflict and confrontation.  -  -  we didn't argue for the little things and bring up the past mistakes of others and his bad temper -  -  My husband was not so angry and would show compassion   Back to top

  My 2 Ex-Friends would just stay out of it or he would just stop believing them and his brother   Back to top

-  -  My husband is honest -  -  he would be honest and not criticize me-  -  My husband could learn how to be completely honest  -  -  she wouldn’t have lied to me about things when it was essential to be truthful   Back to top

-  -  he wasn’t so selfish-  -  HE WOULD NOT BE CONTROLLING -  -  -  he respected me more -  -  He stopped being selfish -  -  She gave me a second chance to show her the things I didn't do. -  -  she would cooperate -  -  My partner wasn't so indecisive -  -  men know what I want -  -  the man I wanted didn’t tell me he's chilling right now and I want to be with him   Back to top

-  -  we had more intimacy -  -  I understood my own problem with an intimate relationship   Back to top

-  -  I would stay out of my boyfriends past, get rid of my jealousy, watch my mouth & my attitude  -  -  he wouldn't be so jealous - -  I wasn’t jealous -  -  if he were not so jealous and judgmental, egotistical -  -  my boyfriend wasn't so jealous -  -  I weren't so jealous   Back to top

-  -  I listen -  -  he would have listen to me -  -  I listen -  -  he had listened to my request -  -  My partner will listen to me sometimes -  -  my daughter would listen to reasonable advice -  -  he had more time for me and listened made me feel special -  -  listen -  -  she listened instead of turning it into a joke.   Back to top

 -  -  lived closer -  -  had a place of our own -  -  be together more -   We live in the same state. -  -  We live in two different places and people always tell us what we should do with our relationship -  -  he was divorced -  -  I could see her more.   Back to top

-  -  we could compromise and love each other. -  -  could commit to the one I feel I love  -  -  he loved me  -  -  I just could find some one to love me for what I am and not what they want  -  -  I really knew if he loved me as much as I love him-  -  He would tell me that he loves me -  -  she would allow herself to love me completely -  -  He would be more loving and understanding -  -  the man that I have a relationship wasn't so cold -  -  my husband cared -  -  I showed the same affection she did and tried as hard as she did   Back to top

-  -  found the right man -  -  I wasn’t separated -  -  I don't know -  -  I had a companion -  -  I could find somebody worthwhile -  -  Kelly didn't have double standards -  -  he didn't photograph nude women -  -  my spouse could be happy -  -  It's perfect right now… new but perfect.   Back to top

-  -  I HAD MORE MONEY @NEW HOW TO UNDERSTAND HER -  -  money problems in -  -  I was more involved in making decisions about our financial matters  -  -  I had finances   Back to top

-  -  She would be more open to my suggestions -  -  he was available -  -  My partner Could learn to open up to me -  -  my boyfriend didn't keep things from me -  -  I new what was going on -  -  he wasn't so secretive   Back to top

-  -  move on from past -  -  he would let go of the old baggage of a marriage that ended 20 years ago -  -  there wasn't so many personal issues -  -  I worked on my past relationship -  -  we could get over the past   Back to top

-  -  Respect -  -  I had respect and consideration?   -  -  I was respected   Back to top

-  -  we had more sex , and communicating was easier -  -  my partner would not neglect me in the area of sex and affection - -  pornography has replaced our sex l -  -  He would be more affectionate understanding and making me feel good during sex -  -  the intimacy and sex were back to when we first started dating -  -  passion came back   Back to top

-  -  we could agree on the kids and stepkids, and if the attention with each other was there. -  -  he could stop being afraid of his ex -  -  the ex wife would leave us alone   Back to top

-  -  he stops lying, and doing drugs/alcohol  -  -  he didn't use drugs -  -  he didn't smoke pot -  -  he would stop drinking and doing drugs   Back to top

-  -  My wife would trust me again -  -  I could trust more -  -  I could regain the trust he betrayed in our previous relationships. -  -  he could trust me -  -  I could trust him -  -  I trusted my man and felt like he does love me -  -  I could trust him  -  -  we trusted each other -  -  I trusted me boyfriend -  -  we could trust each other -  -  I was able to trust him with my heart -  -  I could trust him -  -  I could really trust him   Back to top

we could talk -  -  my husband would talk to me more often -  -  we would talk about our differences and not avoid conflict -  -  we could talk and be on the same page   Back to top

-  -  he could be more understanding of me -  -  I knew where things stood, do we have a future together -  -  my man would try to understand my feelings -  -  He tried to understand my point of - -  -  we were on same wave length  -  -  feelings and needs understood and treat as equal  -  -  I understood men-  -  If she understood me better and why I do the things I do -  -  he would forgive me for calling him a liar and me acting stupid all the time -  -  I knew where she stood about the relationship -  -  We could get on the same page   Back to top